Black & White Birthday Party

When your children turn 4 and 2, you don't normally have a throw down birthday bash. However, Impress The Guest is not your normal event planning service. Saturday was a chance for my closest family and friends to see what it's like to live in the event planning world. I believe that size and price should not be the qualifying factors when you plan an event. You should always think to yourself, what do I want to remember when it's all said and done. For me, I wanted to see my husband and his friends taking a moment out of their busy lives to laugh at each other. I also wanted to see my mom catch up with life long friends like my favorite Colonel Allen and his adorable wife Jane. It was also most important that Katrina Trotter Photography was there to capture the smiles on my children's faces when they danced with their friends, blew out their candles, and gave kisses all night! Also, nothing brings a happy group together like delicious food. Sweet Treasures and More Catering delivered an incredible spread that at the end of the night, everyone was raving about! No one can deny how delicious it was, and it felt like we are all at home eating with the family!

I also believe that in every experience there is something to learn. Although we've thrown parties before, it never ceases to amaze me how quickly time flies when you're preparing an event to run like a machine. Have you ever looked at your watch and it was 9am, then shortly after that you look down again and it's 5pm? That's what it feels like!! There are boo-coodles of details that need to be examined and what makes it so tough is that usually it all has to happen at the last minute. I could have spent 3 days setting up for this party. Once I get in the party planning zone, it takes a stun gun to shock me out of it!! Well, that or a deadline. Anyhow, here's what I learned. Always tuck your drink stock under the table or behind to keep it close to the display. Why walk back and forth and back and forth to replenish through the night, when you can just pick it up, pop the top, and pour? Again, I knew it before the madness, but during the event it's hard to think clearly when one part of your brain is trying to recall 80 names, while the other part is constanlty checking to make sure that no one is in need of anything. Simple details become the hardest when you feel like your party is in overdrive. In the end, I think I may have been the only one that noticed that the candles were cream not white, the stage display was not symetrical, and that a tiny portion of the most amazine black and white cake ever was missing thanks to my 2 year old! Really, none of that matters to anyone except the party coordinator. It was a true pleasure to be able to do such a thing for my children and wonderful husband. I know they enjoyed it tremendously and made some great memories; however, none of it would have been possible without all of the help received by my wonderful family and friends!!!! Thanks so much to Harriet, Janet, Dot, Katrina, Freda, Kim, Shai, Mickey, Glenn, John, Charles, Brian, Jason, and Lance.......who puts up with me!!! Love you all! http://www.impresstheguest.us